You know the feeling. A glance in the mirror, a photo someone takes, a comment that shouldn’t matter but does. And suddenly the day feels different.
For some people this happens occasionally. For others, it’s constant. A background noise that follows them through every meal, every social situation, every time they catch their reflection.
What is body image
Body image isn’t just about how you look. It’s about how you feel in your body — the thoughts, beliefs, and emotions that show up when you think about your appearance. Negative body image can include:
This is sometimes called appearance anxiety and it can quietly take over more of your life than you realise.

What’s really going on underneath
Body image distress rarely lives in the mirror. It lives in the stories we carry about what bodies are supposed to look like, what our body says about us as a person, and what we deserve based on how we look.
These stories often start early. Diet culture, social media, comments from family, experiences of being seen or unseen — all of it shapes how we relate to our own body.
The work isn’t about learning to love your body every day. It’s about building a relationship with your body that isn’t based on judgment, what’s sometimes called body neutrality. A relationship where your body doesn’t have to look a certain way for you to feel okay inside.
Professional credentials:
Therapeutic approaches I draw on:
How body image counselling can help
Counselling for body image isn’t about changing how you look. It’s about changing your relationship with what you see, and more importantly, what you feel.
Together we work on:
Who this is for
This page might be for you if:
You don’t need a diagnosis. You don’t need to be in crisis. You just need to be tired of carrying this.
My approach to body image counselling
I draw on ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), somatic awareness, and polyvagal theory — approaches that work with both the mind and the body.
Rather than challenging every negative thought, we work on loosening the grip those thoughts have. We get curious about what’s happening in your body, not just your mind. And we build something steadier — a sense of self that doesn’t depend on how you look on a given day.
Sessions are online, available across Australia, in English and Russian.
Common questions
You don’t have to keep fighting your body.
If this resonates, even a little, a free 15-minute intro call is a gentle place to start. No commitment, just a conversation.

